“Of course women are smarter. Have you ever heard of a woman who would lose her mind because a man had beautiful legs?” Faina Ranevskaya once said. And she was right because being smart is very important in relationships between men and women.
The game “a man is a hunter, and a woman is a prey” is old, but sometimes it is still suitable. Women love brave and determined knights. But you will probably agree that sometimes this interest needs to be encouraged. And this must be done very carefully because when the prey is easy to get, it is worthless.
So how are you supposed to let a man know that you’re interested in him but make him want to play?
Smile!
Scientists have shown that men love smiling women much more than those who seem overly confident or mysterious. When you smile, you send a signal to a man: “I am happy and I can make you happy too.” And who can refuse such an offer?
Then smile! Even when you talk to him on the phone. It’s easy to feel someone’s mood, even from a distance.
Show Your Interest
Men (as well as women) like it when someone cares about them. So ask a man questions about his hobbies, views, values, and goals. Take a look at it and ask more questions about the topic it talks about the most. If they don’t understand anything, don’t be ashamed to tell them. This may sound great, just get it right.
- Bad: “I can’t understand people who love to ride a motorcycle. It’s too dangerous!”
- Good: “I always wanted to know why people like to ride motorcycles so much! It seems very dangerous.”
Ask For Help
Create a situation where the man you care about can feel strong. Men don’t have many of those opportunities today when women are so strong and independent.
Maybe inviting him over to your house to fix something isn’t always appropriate, but you can easily ask him to move a few things or check out that weird noise in your car. It’s a way of making a man feel like a savior and showing him that you like him because you chose him to help you.
Thank Them Sincerely
If asking for a favor is advice, gratitude is a direct but elegant way to show that you are interested in a man. And it is also an opportunity to praise him, which is very important.
So instead of saying thank you, you should try something like, “You did a great job. You really helped me and I couldn’t have done it without you.”
By the way, gratitude is the ideal time to flirt. Get closer, touch him and look him in the eye. Invite him to your home for a cup of coffee or a glass of wine.
Help A Man Feel Strong
Let a man know that you feel very safe with him. Tell him whenever you can that he is the one who makes you feel so safe. Protecting a woman is a quality that nature has given to men, so when you activate it, you let him know that you like him.
Of course, it is very strange to talk about safety and security without a reason, so “help” a man to take care of you. For example, ask him to walk you home because it’s dark or raining and he doesn’t have an umbrella (even though he does).
Be Direct
There are many jokes about men’s inability to understand advice, and there are many jokes about women who love advice too much. For example, you want to show a man that you like him by asking him to see a movie.
Then do! “There is a good movie in the theater!” it won’t help a man understand that you want to go to the movies with him and that you don’t really care which movie to watch.
Express your thoughts directly. The worst thing that can happen to you is that you say no. In that case, you have to ask yourself if it’s really worth it.
And A Few More Words:
When trying to follow your course of action, don’t overdo it with praise, asking for help, etc. Men must be in doubt until the end: he must not know if you like him or not. This will not allow him to lose the feeling that he is hunting you and not the other way around.
But what should you do if none of these tricks work? Here are 2 options: either you tell the man how you feel or you stop wasting time and look around because there must be many other men who deserve your attention.
Both decisions are correct and the choice simply depends on the woman, her principles, and her character. What decision would you make?
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